| Thank you for joining me on 
            my website, rather than just deleting the email. I thought there were 
            a number of things relating to the T&SC organization which should be 
            mentioned in the email, but then it dawned on me, if someone was not 
            interested enough to click on the link, it probably was not all that 
            important to share the information with them.   One item, before I forget, or 
            it gets lost in my notes, is that a friend explained to me the easiest 
            tool needed to make shelves similar to the others that hold books in 
            our library is a router. I do not own one, nor was ever very good at 
            using one. Basically, grooves in the vertical boards interlock with 
            grooves cut into the horizontal boards. So, if any of you live close 
            enough to do just the basics of cutting the grooves, and own a router, 
            your help would be greatly appreciated. Donna and I have already purchased 
            the lumber and donated it to the Teaching & Sharing Centers for the 
            library.     
              
              
                
                  | %20Disneyclips.jpg) |  | When I started responding 
                  "why not" to the idea of an email this morning, part of the reason 
                  was some of the cute graphics/clipart I had downloaded for future 
                  use the last time I was working on a newsletter. I happen to be 
                  a big fan of Pooh, so I was very happy when I discovered 
                  disneyclips.com 
                  as a free online source.   While I like most of the Hundred Acre Wood 
                  characters, I bear a particular affinity for Eeyore. I 
                  try not to emulate the demeanor, but the negative default thinking 
                  coming automatically has been a real challenge for me through 
                  most of my life.   |  Guess what I discovered in our by-laws several months 
            ago while I was entering the changes our members approved in 2018? We 
            have term limits. Since I am the one who put together the by-laws (with 
            a lot of copy and pasting from other sources), read and rewrote them 
            specific to our current and anticipated needs, you would think I would 
            have remembered that. But I did not.    It takes three incorporators to set up a non-profit 
            in Michigan. As you might guess, Rick and I, the two still living incorporators, 
            have been on the board of trustees since the beginning. The lack of 
            willing volunteers has been an issue before, but now it could reach 
            crisis status. Between term limits and trustees moving, we might be 
            in need of four new trustees just to meet the minimum. You might ask, 
            why not change the by-laws to eliminate term limits? Members could do 
            that, but I am one member who would vote against it. I obviously thought 
            it was a good idea in 2004. I still think it is a bad idea to get into 
            the habit of letting the same group of people make all the decisions 
            in an organization that ultimately belongs to God.   If you would like to be a voice and hands in God's 
            work as He develops the growth and direction of the Teaching & Sharing 
            Centers organization, now would be a very good time to step forward. 
             Elections take place in June at the Annual Membership 
            Meeting. Please let us know before then if you are willing. If not, 
            please endeavor to think of the people you know who would rather our 
            culture embrace a teach and share model, rather than the compete and 
            compare philosophy which has created the conditions I hear so many people 
            complain about. See if any of them would like to be a part of helping 
            that happen.   In a quick preparation for putting together this 
            newsletter, I happened to open a file containing the above header and 
            opening line. From the entering side of any endeavor, fourteen years 
            seems like a long time. Not so much when you are looking back. Let alone 
            the twenty-four years plus some since the Teaching & Sharing Center 
            (of Grand Ledge) began as a sole-proprietorship. It is time to move 
            forward yet again. We have a sound foundation. But we need to hear new 
            voices, and see new faces joining in whatever God has in mind for our 
            future. Maybe we also need to see some of you from our past, who found 
            other endeavors too time consuming to stay, get re-involved. A good 
            mix involves both. The T&SC has only been around for a single generation. 
            Cherokee wisdom says a true leader must look back seven generations 
            to see where you have come from, and ahead seven generations to see 
            how something will affect those yet to come, before you decide on a 
            path. In her writings, Peace Pilgrim indicated we are mostly too busy 
            dealing with symptoms, rather than facing the tougher issues of causes. 
            Until we do, little will change. It can be done though. I believed it 
            enough to commit twenty-four years of my life to it, and most likely 
            until the day I die. How much are you willing to commit for real change? 
             One of the most difficult things for me is eliminating 
            the use of the word I. We are a we now, this T&SC. It is where God lead. 
            We, the Teaching & Sharing Centers organization now own the building 
            where we started almost 25 years ago. (Designated contributions toward 
            the mortgage are most welcome by the way). Ownership brings with it 
             
            opportunity, but also responsibility. Owning is more responsibility 
            than a few hands can take care of, and more opportunity to develop outreach 
            from what we own than only a few can take advantage of.   OK. Time to get back to Saint Valentines Day . . .
 Valentine's Day, also called Saint Valentine's Day 
            or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is a secular and religious holiday 
            celebrated annually on February 14. It originated as a Western Christian 
            feast day honoring one or two early saints named Valentinus. 
             (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine%27s_Day)   
            %20hellasmultimedia.jpg) Feast of Lupercalia
 Historians trace the origin of Valentine's Day to 
            ancient Roman Empire. It is said that in the Rome of ancient times people 
            observed a holiday on February 14th to honor Juno - the Queen of Roman 
            Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also regarded Juno as the Goddess of 
            Women and Marriage. On the following day, February 15th began the fertility 
            festival called 'Feast of Lupercalia'. The festival of Lupercalia was 
            celebrated to honor the Gods Lupercus and Faunus - the Roman God of 
            Agriculture besides the legendary founders of Rome, Romulus and Remus. An interesting custom was followed in the Feast of 
            Lupercalia to bring together young boys and girls who otherwise were 
            strictly separated. On the eve of the festival names of young Roman 
            girls were written on a slip of paper and placed into jars. Each young 
            man drew out a girl's name from the jar and was paired with the girl 
            for the duration of Lupercalia. Sometime pairing lasted for a year until 
            next year's celebration. Quite often, the couple would fall in love 
            with each other and later marry. The custom lasted for a long time until 
            people felt that the custom was un-Christian and that mates should be 
            chosen by sight, not luck. Defiance by Saint Valentine The pairing of young boys and girls did set the mood 
            of the Valentine's Day Festival as we know today. But it was actually 
            due to the efforts and daring of a priest St Valentine that the festival 
            got its name and clearer meaning. The story goes that during the reign 
            of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in several bloody and unpopular 
            campaigns. Claudius found it tough to get soldiers and felt the reason 
            was men did not join army because they did not wish to leave their wives 
            and families. As a result Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements 
            in Rome. A romantic at heart priest of Rome Saint Valentine defied Claudius's 
            unjustified order. Along with Saint Marius, St Valentine secretly married 
            couples. When his defiance was discovered, Valentine was brutally beaten 
            and put to death on February 14, about 270 AD. After his death Valentine 
            was named a Saint. According to another version of legend Valentine 
            was killed because he attempted to help Christians escape from the Roman 
            prison as they were being tortured and beaten there. Yet another popular 
            version of the legend states that while in prison Valentine or Valentinus 
            fell in love with jailer's daughter who visited him during confinement. 
            Before his death Valentine wrote a farewell letter to his sweetheart 
            from the jail and signed ‘From your Valentine'. The expression became 
            quite popular amongst love struck and is still very much in vogue. By the Middle Ages, Valentine assumed the image of 
            heroic and romantic figure amongst the masses in England and France. 
            Later, when Christianity spread through Rome, the priests moved Lupercalia 
            from February 15 to February 14. Around 498 AD, Pope Gelasius declared 
            February 14 as St. Valentine's Day to honor the martyr Valentinus and 
            to end the pagan celebration. (http://www.stvalentinesday.org/history-of-st-valentines-day.html)
 
              
              
                
                  | As I said in a previous 
                  newsletter . . .  Though we have drifted far from the instructions 
                  of Jesus, I am thankful for the example shown by those early Christians 
                  who set the tone, and gave us something to look back to as we 
                  try to right our paths to a genuine response to Jesus, the Christ. 
                   |  | %20cbn.jpg) |  St. Valentine, the Real Story Flowers, candy, red hearts and romance. That's what Valentine's Day 
            is all about, right? Well, maybe not. The origin of this holiday for the expression of love really isn't 
            romantic at all—at least not in the traditional sense. Father Frank 
            O'Gara of Whitefriars Street Church in Dublin, Ireland, tells the real 
            story of the man behind the holiday — St. Valentine. "He was a Roman Priest at a time when there was an emperor called 
            Claudias who persecuted the church at that particular time," Father 
            O'Gara explains. " He also had an edict that prohibited the marriage 
            of young people. This was based on the hypothesis that unmarried soldiers 
            fought better than married soldiers because married soldiers might be 
            afraid of what might happen to them or their wives or families if they 
            died." "I think we must bear in mind that it was a very permissive society 
            in which Valentine lived," says Father O'Gara. "Polygamy would have 
            been much more popular than just one woman and one man living together. 
            And yet some of them seemed to be attracted to Christian faith. But 
            obviously the church thought that marriage was very sacred between one 
            man and one woman for their life and that it was to be encouraged. And 
            so it immediately presented the problem to the Christian church of what 
            to do about this." "The idea of encouraging them to marry within the Christian church 
            was what Valentine was about. And he secretly married them because of 
            the edict." Valentine was eventually caught, imprisoned and tortured for performing 
            marriage ceremonies against command of Emperor Claudius the second. 
            There are legends surrounding Valentine's actions while in prison. "One of the men who was to judge him in line with the Roman law at 
            the time was a man called Asterius, whose daughter was blind. He was 
            supposed to have prayed with and healed the young girl with such astonishing 
            effect that Asterius himself became Christian as a result." In the year 269 AD, Valentine was sentenced to a three part execution 
            of a beating, stoning, and finally decapitation all because of his stand 
            for Christian marriage. The story goes that the last words he wrote 
            were in a note to Asterius' daughter. He inspired today's romantic missives 
            by signing it, "from your Valentine." "What Valentine means to me as a priest," explains Father O'Gara, 
            "is that there comes a time where you have to lay your life upon the 
            line for what you believe. And with the power of the Holy Spirit we 
            can do that —even to the point of death." (http://www1.cbn.com/st-valentine-real-story)
 
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